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Memories of BMT Graduation

Airman John Swinney

Airman John Swinney

Memories of BMT Graduation Trip – May 5, 2010 – May 9, 2010

1. John and Rikki in the backseat of the rental car. John says “I’m getting paid for this”. He’s never had a salaried job.
2. Being so close to John at the Coin Ceremony as he assisted his TI with handing out the coins.
3. That first hug after 8 ½ weeks; and knowing John felt the same emotions.
4. Of the thousands of people there, the first person I really “saw” at the Airmen’s Run was John’s father across the street. (I didn’t say they would all be GOOD memories).
5. The Riverwalk and John going into the “Life is Good” store and buying me a zip-up hoodie and a little necklace with a heart on it for Mother’s Day.
6. Calling John to come to our hotel room on Saturday evening for a really long hug. Lots of tears for me.
7. Meeting Rikki and her mom, Ronda, at the San Antonio Airport.
8. Laughing with John about the “gay” TI and listening to his impression of the guy.
9. Hearing over 700 young Airmen sing The Air Force Anthem……Off we go into the wild blue yonder…..
10. Sgt. Clevenger, John’s TI, and John getting pissed because John’s dad showed up at his dorm before us and presented himself and his wife as “John’s parents”.
11. Giving John and Rikki St. Michael’s necklaces and knowing that John wore his.
12. John giving Warren a “dog tag” that says “To a loving Stepfather. Thank you for your support and for being the proud parent of an Airman.”
13. John handing me a bumper sticker in the BX that says “My Son is in the Air Force” and saying “Hey Mom, I bought this for you”.
14. Sitting for three hours in the bleachers, facing the sun and waiting for the Coin Ceremony to start.
15. We all got sunburned. John had a “V” on his face where his AF hat covered part of his head. Rikki was so burned, she slathered her arms, chest, and neck with aloe.
16. John introducing Rikki to his TI as “my fiancé”; it was news to all of us, including Rikki.
17. Seeing John run by twice in the Airmen’s Run and Warren being able to get a couple of pictures both times.
18. Hugging John after graduation.
19. Seeing John’s dad and his wife searching for John after graduation and steering them to him; and knowing they would not have done the same.
20. Watching John try on watches and sunglasses again and again and again…..his graduation and birthday gifts. I finally said “Pick one!” I was getting exhausted by the heat.
21. Dropping John off after town pass on Friday and watching him make a “military turn” and start marching, by himself, to the dorm.
22. Eating not-so-great Mexican food at Acentar on the Riverwalk…..and I even researched it!
23. In the car, and being able to reach back and feel John take my hand.
24. Being amazed at how straight and tall John sat and walked. He had so much pride in his accomplishments, and it was obvious.
25. Leaving John………..

Things Remembered: The Tiger on the Ceiling

He was 10…Wiley Post Elementary…the art teacher was so impressed. At an honors ceremony, they pointed out his tile in the ceiling…..a tiger he had painted on ceramic. I was so proud…..and still am. He’s an amazing artist: Tilted Symmetry